I wish I could stay in bed all day. I wonder if that would make me feel better.
I wish I could take a vacation from my mind. The darn thing won’t turn off. 
Maybe I should just wear a cool hat and stare off into space with the perfect back lighting. Note to self-get a cute off the shoulder top for moments like this.
Perhaps I should blast some Slayer old school style to drown out my thoughts.
Or hunt down these girls and make them be my new friends! Judging from footwear and accessories alone, I’m pretty sure we’d be besties and they would do me no wrong! Plus forced friendship is not creepy at all, right? 
Sorry for the mood, dolls. I just don’t understand people and my life would probably be easier if I just gave up trying. Frenemys. Girls who are so bout it bout it when I’m UP TO HERE with le perks and fabulousness and the free shit and the V.I.P, but vanish when I’m down (in their eyes)…since they can’t use me anymore, poof, they’re gone. Vultures. Jealous biatches who leave you when you need them most and are secretly (or not so secretly) happy when you fall. I do a ton of things that aren’t perfect, but I won’t ever leave you hanging and I’ll never be happy when your life gets rough for a minute, no matter what you have that I don’t. Basically- I’m just sick of being the 3am phone call when I can’t even get a 3pm phone call.
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I'm so sorry you're feeling so down, especially after such a great weekend. Just know that everyone who meets you or comes across your blog falls in love with you – and that includes me. Big smooches your way, lovebug.
cupcake soon, yes?
Boo to everyone like that. I'd be your friend, and I didn't even know got free stuff!
oh…dear Liz…give me some names and i'll go kick some arses…
feeling used is shit, i'll give you that, but they're doing the spring cleaning for you! bye bye biatches…more time/space for great gals!
feel better soon sweetpea…
xxx
ps. don't do like me last saturday, don't think cava,wine & rum is going to make it better. it does NOT…
Sweetheart,
I totally understand you, I have been there, trust me…
That is why, nowadays, I can "proudly" say I trust none of my "friends" for sure.
Most of the time we share laughs, but when I am sad or feeling bad, I am all alone…
Not cool, but such is life!!
Be sure to be always brave and powerful…
XX
they're not worth your time or misery, babe.
Ugh, I've had 'friends' like that and I've cut them all out. Yep, I'm merciless that way, but in all honesty, those aren't really friends anyway and they don't deserve to be in your life. Not that I still didn't feel horrible after. It's the kind of betrayal you could never imagine, but it happens more often than not. I think it's why most of my bestest friends are those I've known for a long time (before I had a career and did this crazy amount of traveling). I hope you'll manage to forget them and I'm sure you do still have good friends you can trust. After all, you have a fab twin, which is more than what most have!
And if women keep screwing you over, maybe you should just start stocking up on the fabulous gay guy friends 
ooohhh…so called 'friends' seem to be disappointing at times…I'd rather have quality than quantity! hope you feel better darling, there are true friends out there…you truly deserve sincere & kind ones~ XO*
Liz, i'm sorry you're going through this, I hope they burn in hell! I hope you have a better day and weekend! ( ( (hugs)))
i really hope you feel better.
Ugh yes. Girls can be such a let-down sometimes, I'm really sorry to hear. I wish you more reliable friends, besties, sisters. No matter if it's a boy or girl, you ALWAYS deserve a 3pm phone call.. more than you deserve the 3am one.
Kisses *xoxo* you're a doll !
If I knew you personally, this is the point where I'd say "call me right now!" or "I'm coming over!" But since I am only an observer to your world, all I can do is offer you my two cents. Trust me when I say I know how you feel. There are people in my life that I am positive would not be around if I did not know certain people or couldn't provide them certain things. Lately I've been asking myself why I bother with these people at all. Especially now that I am trying to do my own thing with starting a biz and a blog, and can't get not a one of them to support what I'm doing. Oh they all want you to help them with their shit, promote their shit, come to their shit, etc. But somehow I can never get the same support in return. Advice I'm trying to take myself and that I give you, is to get the leeches out of your life. They will drain you, take advantage of your fabulousness, and turn their back when you need them most. Everyone is not your friend. It sucks when you learn this the hard/disappointing way.
Big virtual hug to ya darlin'!
Least your still thinking of fashion … cute off the shoulder top .. love you, so funny.
Cut them lose babe and make room for true friends.
xoxo
If I knew you personally, this is the point where I'd say "call me right now!" or "I'm coming over!" But since I am only an observer to your world, all I can do is offer you my two cents. Trust me when I say I know how you feel. There are people in my life that I am positive would not be around if I did not know certain people or couldn't provide them certain things. Lately I've been asking myself why I bother with these people at all. Especially now that I am trying to do my own thing with starting a biz and a blog, and can't get not a one of them to support what I'm doing. Oh they all want you to help them with their shit, promote their shit, come to their shit, etc. But somehow I can never get the same support in return. Advice I'm trying to take myself and that I give you, is to get the leeches out of your life. They will drain you, take advantage of your fabulousness, and turn their back when you need them most. Everyone is not your friend. It sucks when you learn this the hard/disappointing way.
It always stings a little more when a friend hurts you, but that just makes those true friends that much more valuable. I hope things get better today love!!
And those two gurls with the fierce accessories…I'd want to be friends with them as well…and borrow their shoes, I hope they wear a size 6!!
That's the worst. Thirsty bitches. That's what I call 'em. No one likes a thirsty bitch, or a sticky muffin for that matter. Hope your day gets better!
dude…cannot even comment on this post…you know how i feel about you…this weekend was just the solidifying factor in knowing what true friendship is all about…and we…WE know how to be boutit boutit ALL the time!!! the future is bright and full of new beginnings…we know and heart the liz no matter if she is up down backward or sideways…we love her ALWAYS!!!
i would honestly rather be hurt by a guy than by my friends. friends are supposed to have your back no matter what, or so i've always thought! i;ve been screwed over so many times so i feel your pain and im so sorry you have to go through it. but you know what…chin up darling girl. im sure everythign will work out and its better that their out of your life and you can make more room for more important people. have a great day lady, go grab yourself a giant cupcake and a cup of coffee
Hey hon, I just sent you an email a few minutes ago because I just got yours now due to the time change. I hate myself right now for missing it – again with the time dif, it's like 5:30 over there – crap, email me when you're up k? xxxxxxxx
sorry I keep saying time change, I mean time *differece*….I'm 3hrs ahead of you.
Bad days are no fun…in spite of it all you were so sweet to write me a comment! Thank you for your prayers and I will do some praying for you!
Oh dear. That sounds poo.
Girls can be so mean sometimes! I keep saying that to my 13 year old daughter, but it never changes however old you are!
Hope you feel better soon, they are not worthy to be your friends, you deserve much better.
big kiss. X
um CALL ME now!!! what the hay? do i need to unleash my latin fury on some B now or what?! cause you know i will!!!
k seriously though, i love you and i'll be that call or email or text or FB message…WHATEVER i'm here.
:::hugs:::
Sorry the world has got you down! Boys may be stupid….but girls are down right evil. The best way to tell who your true friends are is looking to see wh's there when you're at your worst. The rest….are expendable.
Whomever you speak of doesn't know what true friendship is all about or how to be a good friend at all. Because if they were…they'd know that it's not about what you get…it's what you give. Your heart is HUGE and you don't deserve this. Anyone would be so lucky to call you a friend ♥ I'm not in the best of mind sets due to the situation i'm dealing with, but you know that i'm here for you whenever. This whole catty girl tude thing needs to be SCRATCHED!!!
oh my! thats what just happened to me. my best friend took me for granted. best friend who is a cousin too. but i trying hard to not care about her anymore. some friends will come, just keep believing. and there's a quote saying people who really matter in your life wont go.
stay strong :]
I'm sorry u feeling down, that's why i don't have best friends.
Oh my love. I'm so sorry you've been let down by some mean witches. What a disappointment! You're so good-hearted and loving, you're the LAST person who would deserve something like this.
I. Love. You. for you. Hope you feel brighter soon. XOXO
So sorry sweetie. I know it hurts. But it will get better. You are strong and awesome and this will pass. And it's okay to have a down day. You're allowed.
Feel better- I am moody too…maybe it's the change of the seasons? lol
OK girl, who's legs do I have to break? I cant have my bitch feeling all morose, and hookers in high heels are easy targets.
That is all!
Do you need me to come cut a bitch because I will! I'm small but I'm scrappy and you've seen my badass gun pictures.
In all seriousness I'm sorry you're feeling this way, the only good thing is that at times like these you find out who your true friends are and those are the ones that matter most. I think you're fabulous and if those other "friends" don't appreciate you then I say good riddance to them!
Hey Liz. I'm so sorry. Nothing wrong with blasting Slayer to help you out. I do that sort of thing myself. Good luck. I wish you the best. I'll keep you in my prayers. Take care.
Hope U feel better, darling Liz!
XoXo
Girl, I'm sorry. Really. Being dissed by girlfriends sucks sweaty balls, big time. I've said this before… if I was closer, I'd show up with some marg mix and a bottle of tequila (or a bottle of sangria, your choice!), accompanied with some serious cupcakes, and you could go to town with venting! And then we'd drop the beyotches like hot potatoes and gather your besties – Oofa, Bananas, your wombmate, etc!
Hugs from afar!!
xoxo J
Man I hear that! When you're in a cool band everyone wants to buy you drinks and be your friend. When you quit the band those people that were your friends don't even say hi. It's that age old thought of, "Are they really a friend?"
I'm sorry that happened. Lame. Luckly you are awesome and have better things to do with your life than give them anymore of your energy. Now fix that hair, put on some nice shoes and strut it like you're Mr. Travolta!
WHAT.
WHO ARE WE SHANKING.
WHO?!?!?!?!!?!
I feel exactly the same way. Hugs!! Feel better. It's almost Friday.
*hugs* So sorry Liz, it really is more difficult if a friend let you down =(. Anything I can do to cheer you up? (*doing the dance of joy*). As I always say, be it a man or a friend, it is their loss! Smile girl, you've got a bright future ahead of you and know that you will always have the last laugh! *hugs*
Who's ass are we going to twist into a pretzel??? Who? Tell me, I got nothing but time for you doll.
Awe, Hun… I'm so sorry people are being miserable to you = ( Big hugs ok? You're gorgeous and one of the nicest people I've "met" and you deserve so much better than stupid frenemies.
Remember I <3 you!
Boo to mean girls! Keep your head up! There are many more girlfriend fish in the sea!!!
Liz, so sorry you are having to deal with this! I agree it is harder to deal w/ a situation like this than it is to deal with some guy screwing you over. Through this blogging world I have found you to be completely sweet, genuine, and gorgeous, and you definitely do not deserve some bitchy or backstabbing friend! Hugs, please try to cheer up!
xoxo
I pick friends for their clothes! xoxo
Girl:
Cut out the drama mama.
You know you've got friends who have your back.
xx D
I will never understand why us girls can never get along. By the way I am pretty sure the mood is running rampant. Even my cupcake yesterday couldn't pull me out of my funk.
Cheer up, buttercup!
I'm so sorry! I have learnt the hard way that you have to be really selective on who you let in.
If you want I will come to LA and help you kick some ass latina style
Pardon my languge, but…F THEM!! Anyone that doesn't appreciate you or give you the support you've given them isn't worth a moment of your time. You lady are grade A prime choice. I know there are plenty of ladies out there that would feel blessed to call you their friend!
oh hunny bunny, i'm so sorry you are feeling down
we are all here for you!
me luvs u!! sending a big HUG your way! xo
who do i need to send a hit out on?
@ kristin – just say it girl FUCK THEM.
oh and ill be driving that bus with us to hell…forever slayer…i think Drollgirl is with us.
this is what happens when you are fabulous. please keep your head up and chose your friends wisely. i have more guy friends bc there are too many shady bitches that do this all too often. xoxo
ah sorry about this. it's very annoying and saddening to have girl friends turn on you. no one wants to be used so perhaps you are better off without them.
We all deserve a grumpy day every now and then!! And today can be yours, but not tomorrow too
oh and whaddyaknow…that's me and brooke in that pic. brooke's in the booties with the shredtastic legs and i'm in the studded heels.
BC FOREVS YO!
I totally agree with Kristin…F EM! You're just too good for the bulls#$%! And, also, not to sound all Gwenyth or something, but darling, we're too old for this nonsense. Just block the number, delete it and forget they even existed. Do you want to look back on your life and remember the good or harp on the bad. It's always up to you and I KNOW you are too smart to forget how amazing you are. And also, get that f'in gorgeous off the shoulder number…it will look DIVINE on you.
Thank you for posting this!!! It is SOOO true! That is sort of why I've been in blog "hiding" these days. You took the words right out of me! Love you girl!
PS. Those shoes are a-may-ziiing- I want them to be my new friends too!!!
AHH I LOVE THOSE SHOES!
And forget shiesty girls like that, the real people are all you need.
awwww honey!! i wanna hug you and go kick their asses all at the same time!! you know this insomnia buddy is always here for you…for real. just pick up the phone lady love! and i know what you mean…i lost my bestie and i've been lost ever since….its hard when friendships you thought were solid turn out to be the complete opposite. i heart you lady…keep that pretty chin up!
FUCK~!!!! who did you wrong?!?!? this is so unfair. i hate her/them on your behalf! BOGUS!!!
and SLAYER?!?!?!? knock me down with a feather! i already thought you were the cat's meow, but SLAYER?!?!?!? hells bells, you are even cooler than ever!!!
i am hoping you are feeling better soon. just last night i was wishing i could put my heart, mind, and stomach away in nice velvet lined boxes so they could quietly heal before i put them back in my body. sometimes it is all too much, no? it is hard for us sensitive cool types.
but on the upside, you know you have a GUHZILLION folks that love you and would do anything for you. right? i know it is true!!!! and if there is anything i can do, just say the word.
WAIT!!! one more thing. i have some slayer cds. and i saw them live once. they are pretty amazing. i don't listen to them that often, but they are kind of the best of the best at what they do.
slayer take me away. and you, too.
I love Slayer, it puts me in the mood when lifting weights, lol!
Have you read this?http://www.amazon.com/Friend-Frenemy-Guide-Friends-Need/dp/0061562033/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1253732731&sr=8-1
It's a bit juvenile at first, but it's such an eye opener.
Babe, you OK now?
Email – stop by when you get a sec, k?
xx
LOL! Monica & I were just talking about this over brunch!!
Right Chess?
Next time you should be there too!!
I have been going through the same shiz with to bitc..whoops "friends". PLEASE!! WTF jealousy & hating from now where? How could I be so blind no to see this before? Or maybe they just hid it that well..
hmm…well bloggy world is here so no worries love!
XOXO
I hear ya, girl!
Hope you feel in better spirits asap!
xoxox,
CC
I LOVE YOU.
and girls can really fracking suck. ugh. i still have problems with girls i "cut out".
but you're so fabulous and fantastic and have the biggest heart of gold. i say let the biotches fry.
one mind. one heart. that's what we are…
you know you're feeling better now. look at all the love that's been poured out to you.
F her…F her and her effed up hair!
Sorry to hear about the rough patch you're going through with girlfriends betraying you. If it's any consolation, experiences like this let you know who your real friends are and which relationships you should be investing time and energy in. You deserve better than the treatment these frenemies have given you!
Aw hunykins. I'm sorry some bitches hurt you. You definitely didn't deserve whatever they did to you. Although I don't know you IRL I can totally tell that you give your all to your friends and that makes you one of the best AND one in a million! Keep your chin up, have a glass of wine and watch your favorite movie w/ a hot man in it to swoon over. I watched Dirty Dancing last night and almost cried b/c Patrick passed and I loved him and he was so sexy in that movie. Hot damn. Random. I know. That's how I roll.
xoxo
Friend betrayals are rough Liz, about 6 years ago I had a bad bad one and after that I had this horrible paranoid thing I went through. I had to seriously rethink all of my relationships and figure out who my real friends were. After I got that squared away I became a whole lot pickier about who I let into my life. But in the end, it all comes down to karma. if someone sits around wishing bad things to happen to you and taking joy out of your misfortunes they're only bringing bad stuff onto themselves.
And about Slayer, I don't believe in that either. Have you ever heard all the crazy conspiracy theories on the Beatles and their supposed connection to the devil? In the end it's music.
Sending love and positive thoughts your way! Don't let this dumb person get you down. F*ck'em. (I don't type profane words…heehe)
oh, baby girl. I hear you. I was JUST having this conversation at lunch today with Midtown Girl…I've been there, done that and let me tell you, you have to cut those bitches out. I had a "friend" like that…she hasn't been in my life for 8 yrs now but I always go back to my relationship with her when ever someone tells me that they are having a hard time with someone in the way that you are. She was like a cancer. A horrible, jaded, negative person who only needed you when she needed you, she lied, she was horrible. HORRIBLE. ugh. don't let people bring you down and don't bring yourself down bc of them. next!
I heart you.
and ps..we have to discuss your moving situation. let's talk over gchat sometime this week. xoxoxo
Get rid of those nasty frenemies and put that gorg smile back on your face! It's HUMP Day girlie, which means two more days 'til the fabulous weekend!
Where's updates from last weekend, speaking of… ?
Here's to feeling better on Thirsty Thursday!
~ Jen
I hope you feel better soon love, I definitely knows how it feels to be hurt by someone you thought was a true friend. I have had that happen to me lately as well. Hold your head high – you are deserving of friends who treat you right! If they aren't treating you well, then run the other direction! No one is perfect but you are a deserving girl and I hope you feel better soon. At least you have Brooke and your Banana, they are there 4ever! I am too. Feel better sweetie, xoxo!
"I'm just sick of being the 3am phone call when I can't even get a 3pm phone call." I know EXACTLY what you mean.
Life's too short. I got rid of toxic people in my life a long time ago and with pleasure. I really don't know what's worse: peeps who hate you or peeps who pretend to like you.
P.S If the argan doesn't work, M-Oil is next on my "to buy" list.
Girls are so catty! Can we say MEOOOW!? It's hard to friend girl friends that will stick by your side. One in a million in my case. Still searching for my bestie/soul mate friend…thought I found her but she turned out to be catty! Sigh
Okay, first things first… where’s the Sangria from the bottle when you need it?
I hate hearing that this happened, so I’m sending you the biggest hug and the biggest bouquet of cyber flowers you’ve ever seen to help conciliate those wounds! I swear there’s nothing more discouraging than the venom created between friends… it’s daunting and seeps instantly into the places that hurt the most.
Resolve to hopeful sweetie, because no matter what, you deserve the very best. You put yourself out there unconditionally and should always be made to feel nothing less than amazing!
Love you babe. xxx
Oh girl, I know exactly how you feel. I have been burned far too many times by girl friends. I am sick of fairweather friends and just want something real. I have 2 maybe 3 girls that I can truly count on.
But cheer up, there are better girls out there!! Can't wait to hang with you!
Friend, I feel your pain. And I am having a crummy day as well… for different reasons you know. BUT I have been there with the girl friends and it DOES hurt so bad. I am sorry you're going through it! I think we need to chat! love ya
=( I'll be your virtual blogging friend! I hate fake girls, they drive me nuts. And I hate when friends let jealousy and competition get in the way. Loyalty is the most important quality when it comes to friendship.
And at least now you know the fake girls! When you are a "VIP" in their eyes, you can simply turn up your nose and say "Oh I'm sorry? Do I know you?"
Screw those bitches! Start being greedy and blow them the Hell off! Uggh, I know how you feel though. I feel like there's certain people you just can rely on AT ALL. I want to lie in bed all day, too
sometimes you just have those kind of days. i am going through the same thing right now. things will get better.
I have days like this too except…I am the lone single girl with all married friends that have children..only call when it is convenient to call and then blah blah little Timmy stuck his hand in his poppy diaper…its that hilarious??…Ummm no, aren't you one of my best friends??? I am having a SERIOUS meltdown and you are talking about poop….do like me, take a deep breath, have a GG and Soda w/ a lemon & a lime and just chill. Keep your head up!
i know exactly what you mean about the whole friend thing, i've been taken advantage of many a times and when it came to where i needed them they didn't really give a damn.
also, i am still trying to find a pretty off the shoulder top! & you're right forced friendship… hmm too bad it's not that easy haha. i can always look at someone and think (i'm pretty sure we'd be great friends) but you walk right on by them and never see them again!
Sorry to hear about your bad mood
I also can't stand people like that. Just remember, you're fabulous, and they're not!
Sorry ur dealing with jerks! I've had a few of those bitches in my life before! I actually name characters in my writing after them…my fav is this one girl who totally threw me under the bus at work-I had her character get hit by a car. Not one of my proudest moments, but it felt GREAT!
Oooh, HONEY!!!
Sometimes girls are bitches. It sucks.
*HUGEST HUG*
If you wanna talk? You know where I am
For reals
BOO. I don't know why girls can be even flakier than guys, but we can, and it sucks when it happens. Try not to let those people get you down and remember the people who DO appreciate you. You have many blog friends who think you're awesome…..like me
Give me their addresses, I will hunt them down. Nobody hurts my wife! Nobody!
Oh, the frenemys…..I have many. I have many perks to offer in my line of work and they use and abuse! It's sickening, but sadly there are a lot of shallow people in the world.
Ps…I would be their friends too, maybe we could force friendship together
Feel better love!
girls can be horrible….so mean! but you are amazing and i'm back and i've got your back!!! xo
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