I have been lucky to gain over 300 followers (hello! I’m happy to have you!) without receiving ANY negative/rude comments to date…until yesterday. I wasn’t going to post about it, but I realized…he asked me a question. And I’m going to give him my answer.
“I honestly want to know how you get time to enjoy life when you put that much work into ur physical appearance. and I’m not dissing. i really want to know what the life of a materialistic future diva is like.”
This person is basing his judgements off of one post…and that’s sad. But here is a glimpse into my so-called “Materialistic Life”, and you’re right, buddy…I am a diva. No apologies there. 
I’m a daughter, a twin sister, a damn good friend, a hard worker, a world traveler, a charity supporter, an animal activist and a hopeless romantic. I am deeper than you will ever know, Mister.
Do I in any way owe you the answer to your question-No. But hey, I’m feeling generous. My life is FABULOUS and FUN! I appreciate every single thing I have, yet my material possessions will never define me. My life is a gift in itself because I know it can all be taken away, in an instant, and therefore I work that much harder on the inside than the outside…we are all a work in progress. My life is fabulous because I am thankful for every moment of it.
The Happiest Girls are the Prettiest Girls!
I am a professional make-up artist, and I love sharing my knowledge on my blog. I’m also a fashionista by passion and by trade-and all us fashionista’s will say we hate the term, but really, I am. Fashion is my art, my happy place, Fashion pays my bills, Fashion is my never ending source of inspiration. Does sharing this make me materialistic or shallow? When did caring about one’s appearance become a crime?
I recently left an abusive relationship, am healing and opening myself up to the possibility of love again, and I’m terrified. I am a writer-if you’ve read any of my previous posts, you know this. I am still grieving over the loss of another relationship 3 years ago, and do a lot of deep thinking and soul searching about it, because I am carrying around guilt I can’t seem to shake. I take risks and open up my soul on my blog, and am blessed that by doing this, I have had the ability to touch others and develop bonds with other bloggers, who have in turn touched me and given me hope that I will find someone worthy of the love I have to give, among other things.
I enjoy life by laughing hysterically with my friends, challenging myself, dance, eating cupcakes and drinking wine, admiring my sister, shopping!!!! (yep), cuddling my puppy, working my ass off, hugging my loved ones tight, traveling, dreaming, loving, writing and learning from my mistakes.
And I do EVERYTHING in a killer pair of heels and an extra swipe of mascara.
I get that as my blog increases in popularity, these things will happen…However, It’s Unbeweavable has always been and will always remain, a place of positivity, so if you aren’t on board, or can’t play nice…you are not welcome here. Peace! I am still not going to “moderate” my comments because honestly, I can’t take more emails in my life, and I trust my readers, and adore you all. SO MUCH. This one bit of negativity in no way negates the multitude of sunshine I receive from you on a daily basis.
I am still not going to “moderate” my comments because honestly, I can’t take more emails in my life, and I trust my readers, and adore you all. SO MUCH. This one bit of negativity in no way negates the multitude of sunshine I receive from you on a daily basis. 
Here’s to good friends! Bloggy, real life, whatever. We’re all in this together. XOXO, Liz(Images via Elle UK, fffound, google)
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As the person closest to EM (riiiight?), the whole comment made me laugh. My sister is a real person, with a real heart, real interests, real loves. What you see on her amazing blog is a tiny facet of how great she is. We were laughing about this over shrimp burritos today – you had time for that, Liz. Love you.
Word to your mom.
You did an amazing job with this post. Truthfully, I see the rude comment as good. Its not nice, but its good. Because you just used his bad, to create good, and in life that is all we can do. focus on ourselves, give everything our all, and never let others who try so hard to bring us down. You are totally amazing, fabulous, fun, wonderful,and hilarious. Here is to another 3,000 followers :0) yes, 3,000 not 300. For the rest on my thoughts. those are going off line.
<3 IMEM
PEACE!
LOL at the "douchebag" tag.
I thnk i've said this before, but i think your blog has a lot of substance. to be honest, i don't have time for most fashion blogs. they are boring, repetitive, and the few fashion blogs i do read, I LOVE. this blog is different. you don't have to prove to anyone what you are. if they would have read and followed this blog, they would have known already.
word to your mom.because Gabby said so, so I'm dittoing it.
Ahhh my darling diva I just adore you! Perfectly written post!
People who actually know who you are (and not idiotic people like peanut butter boy) know what a fabulous, loving, gorgeous person you are that has the most beautiful heart and soul.
Love you darling xxxx
great answer!
I love your post, and I hate it that someone felt they needed to bother being rude. I don't really know what his point was…just press X at the top if you don't want to read.
You're an incredible person, and you didn't have to write any of that to prove it to me. I'm sure others feel that way as well. I'm praying that you'll have a lovely time on Saturday!
Girl, did you ever read the anon comment some person left on one of my previous posts saying I was –
"pathetic, needy and will unfortunately never find any guy bc I am so pathetic and its embarrassing. I will no longer be a reader bc you took my previous comment offensive".
LOL I left the comment on there bc, honestly, it's so interesting how people have the time to hate. It's fine bc there are people out there that are just bred this way, you cant change them..just feel sorry for them!!
BTW – when are you coming???
atta girl…dont take shit from anyone. YOU kick ass! in every way imaginable do you know that!
I'm glad you took that fucktards rude comment and turned it around to such an amazing post….which is stuff i already know!!
love you lizzzzz you're absolutely uhmazing and you definitely own the tile of being unbeweavble..
oh yeah …hey douche bag – GFYS
lol i love how one of your tags for this post is "how rude." And u defo don't need to worry about comments like that some people just think that looking after urself and and enjoying urself is shallow but I've found it one of the most enriching things about life. Yay you I say.
This sort of thing p*sses me off. What gives him the right to make assumptions about you? I think we should all visit his dumb blog and make general sweeping statements about him after reading one post!
xx
Some people just don't get it. Makeup is fun! Wanting to look good doesn't make you shallow any more than wanting to have a nice home makes you materialistic. Those things give us a sense of peace and comfort. When we are happy, we are beautiful, and when we feel beautiful, that makes us happy. For the same reason I wear sexy underwear when I know there ain't no boy who's gonna get to see it! lol xoxo
You tell him sista!We should all be so lucky to have something in our lives that we are so passionate about.It's not a curse,it's a gift.
Liz i ♥ U girlie!!! We shouldn't have to ever explain ourselves or why we do things. You are beautiful inside & out…never forget that
{{Hugs}}
Lucky girl!
We're with you, darling!
FM~FP~AF
lol, he is silly. You should never let anyone bring you down, you are wayyyy too fabulous! You handled this beautifully with your glamorous words!
Love it!
Lucky U! What a great photo selection. YAY!
XoXo
okay who was it? i'mma gonna take him out…or better yet have c do it! haha…
you are amazing and anyone who has any investment time in your blog knows you are more than your amazing lips gorgeous face and out of this world hair!
keep doin what you do hun because the haters will grow tired of trying to bring you down and us elizabeth lovers will always be around!
What an amazing post! Don't let the man get you down, he's just a hater!
And totally deserves the douchbag tag. haha. Love it!
RESPECT!
hahahahaha he's such a HATER!!! When you get haters it means you are doing something worth talking about. To hell with MR HATER! This blog is awesome. keep doing what you are doing and being yourself.
I love your blog.
I think you are pretty dang AMAZING (: and I love that you are doing something that you are sooo passionate about!! I can only wish that I get that chance too as well (: Much love. xx (:
This is going to sound so cliche, but maybe he (or she?) was jealous. I don't think you're materialistic based on the blog, but I'm also not covetous. I'm happy for your successes and sad when things don't go your way. P.S. Did you get the Guccis?
Some people want the material things and can't seem to get them, so they're jealous of those who can… proudly. It's only a crime if you are a bitch as well as a diva. XOXO
You are fabulous, no worries there! Love the post!
Perfect answer! Plus how weird is it that a guy sent that comment to you? Some people are just jealous…
Forget about Mr. PB&J ! lol
On to more important things
Lets talk about sex baby .. I mean .. how's the online drummer dating going ?? Good ??! 
Kisses *hugs* LOVE !!
We <3 material girls and there ain't no shame about it !
i think you handled this very well. some people will always be negative no matter what goodness they're surrounded with. way to focus on the positive and i, personally, am proud of you for leaving an abusive relationship and taking the time to love yourself. if more people loved themselves this world would look pretty different.
what a lame lol…HOWEVER, way to tactfully address his "concerns"…you know who you are…and that package just so happens to come in a fierce pair of heels…
like i always say…THOSE that MIND…DON'T MATTER….and those that MATTER..DON'T MIND..
Have a great holiday weekend EMarie!!
what a FANTASTIC POST!!! well done!!!! WELL DONE!!!!!!!!
thank god most bloggers are fab and cool, but i suppose a fair amount of douchebags have to exist to make us appreciate the good ones.
did i mention I LOVE THIS POST?!?!??!
I love your post and you just keep on keeping on girl. You are beautiful and funny and don't let anyone ever tell you different! The courage to open your heart is a beautiful thing…that's why you have so many lovely blog followers.
Thank you for the sweet comment on my blog! xoxo
oh, chica, don't worry about it. the original comment acutally made me smile and think,
"he thinks he just insulted her, i would sooooo take that as a compliment."
the boy can't help it, he's 20 and trying to find his way. but he does have one serious case of vagina-envy.
some people are just jealous!
YOU GO GIRL!!! You don't owe anybody an excuses, this is also your blog so you can write about anything you want without giving any background information. You are such a lovely spirit!! You are AWESOME!!!
I hope you have a lovely day!!
Oh darling it was bound to happen sooner or later! I personally think you are lovely and awesome! From one girly girl to another I love hearing about all your stories whether it's a sale on Gucci sandals or nursing a broken heart. Of all the quotes that I have learned from my fabulous gay bfs this is my favorite
"Jealousy is a disease… get well soon!"
I think yesterday was the day for first time negativity on blogs because I got my first negative comment too.
Your post was great. And while we have never met "IRL" I have never, NEVER, gotten the feeling that you are shallow and materialistic and lack depth, from your blog. I have always gotten a sense that your blog is how you express your creativity, fashion is your medium in the artistic world.
It is obvious from all your blogs that you adore your sister and friends and are loyal and loving to all of them.
I hope your day is a beautiful as you are!
what a jerkoff .
anyway ive had two negative comments
they really make me feel bad and i thought about addressing them but my friends think thats abad idea . at least they dont come back right?
anyway im glad you dont let him get to you .i mean hes a complete loser trying to insult people on the internet .how pathetic is that
I always wonder how people like this have the time to troll the internet for people to pick on. Really?! You couldn't go do it in real life? Oh no, that's right, you had to go pick on some innocent girl under the guise of anonymity because you don't have the kahones to do it in real life, or when you're outside your mama's basement.
Poor, pathetic d-bag. Here's to hoping some old lady hits him with her purse today.
I love you, lady. You are so much fun and I always look forward to reading your blog because it gives me something happy to read each day!!!
aww what a cute post! I am happy for you that you left the abosive relationship, you deserve so much more
And as for the materialistic negative comment, people only call others materialistic when they themselves got no dough to be one
I'm pretty sure he is also materialistic, he can't possibly say that he only wears clothes from salvation army and walmart, and that his sneakers aren't nike or adidas, they're from walmart. Everyone is materialistic!
I hate rude comments. People actually have the time to make the extra effort in leaving a mean thoughtless comment?
Of course you are a real person with a hug heart and a love for all things fashion. There is nothing wrong with caring about the way you look, heels and mascara!
Love ya Girly!
Good job honey!
I think that taking care of one's appearance can be seen as, at the LEAST, a hobby. How many people take an hour or two a day building model airplanes, or training for a marathon, or whatever the heck else? Shame on anyone for judging yours (which happens to make other people happy too, when they look at you!)
Great post!
F him and LOVE you!
I don't even have to tell you that you are fabulous in every way and if people don't get that, then they live a sad, sad existence!
Aww, so sorry about his rudeness…way to stay positive and you are a beautiful lady, inside and out!!
Some people are just so miserable. <- My deep insight for the day.
So perfectly said my darling!
And I don't understand why someone would think they know you well enough to call you names after reading one post! Some people are just so unhappy in their own lives that they try to make others unhappy as well. Way to not let him bring you down!
Also, I see no shame in being a Diva! My hubs nickname for me is PK (Princess Kellie) and I love it!
Good girl, good cuppycake.
This post is one for the books, yes ma'am!
Oh LIz!! i follow you a lot time ago and every day, every post, is magic… But you never changed! And this is more magic
Love you dear! there are a perfect man waiting for you, sure!
Totally fan…
Yami!
ha! has anyone else notice senor loser spelled your: ur!
love you!!!!!!!!!!!
Amen sister! There are always going to be haters out there. But you are fun and fabulous, so don't let it get to you!
liliesandgrapes.blogspot.com
Fantastic and articulate response; far and away above what this idiot and his idiotic question deserved.
GREAT ANSWER!!! It is obvious there is a lot more to you than materialistic things. I am so sorry you had to receive a negative post when you are such a positive person (and always leave GREAT uplifting comments). Blogs are places where it's ABSOLUTELY o.k. to talk about the material things you love. I enjoy all your fashion and make-up tips. If he doesn't he can go somewhere else!
I LOVE how you handled that ignorant comment! You are fabulous and you make my life more fabulous by being a part of it! Have a wonderful weekend, love
I say you're on the way to SUCCESS, as we try to real our goals/aspirations or anything that's an outcome of a great life there's always (a lot) of people who will try to judge us base on some unclear facts in life and or make up truths that they'll shove against out throat.
You are a wonderful person and there's a lot of us who can prove that you're more than just what this person say or some hater will in the near future.
I commend you for your ANSWER such an inspiration!
LOL. This guy is pretty pathetic. And clearly has issues! It's sort of amazing reading my own blog now because I'm worried that I come off as materialistic, vain or shallow. But, you know what? Life's too short to obsess over these things, and as I've gotten less self-conscious about the things that I'm naturally drawn to, I've really progressed as a blogger and found other like-minded people to correspond with. I have a graduate degree from an Ivy League institution, I've worked with serious titans of finance, I've studied fiction writing in serious workshops with serious people and I'm a married homeowner, but I never really blog about these things. I blog about fashion and travel and things that make me happy. So take that, Mr. Judgmental.
liz, AWESOME post! one of my faves i've read in the blogosphere. great answer and a great attitude…but i wouldn't have expected any less.
my fave line: And I do EVERYTHING in a killer pair of heels and an extra swipe of mascara. don't we all…don't we all. 
such a great post. He's a douche. Why do people think they can place judgment on something that clearly makes you happy? I hate people
…I LOVE that image of {I think?} Blake L and Leighton M ….SO FUCKING CUTE!!!
you're a twinzie too? I adore you even more now you lovely lovely lady
Love this post! BIG CHEERS to you for being such a rockstar!
Love your blog – keep it up!
I will never understand people who leaves rude comments on a page…I mean life is too short, if I don't like something I move forward and will not stop by and critisising. Your posts are amazing and I love your answers here. Well done Liz.
Ps: I love the "Douchebags" tag, LOL.
Have a great weekend dear, much love: Evi
Ps: sorry for deleting my first comment but I've made a spelling mistake…LOL…
I am still saving my comments about this particular feller just for you, but… I can't imagine taking the time to write something negative on another person's page. It's sad. However… Something good has come out of this! Hooray! It has given you the opportunity to look inside and see all that you are, all that is loving and good and generous. Remember that old sticker: Mean People Suck. So true… I love you and can't wait to see you wearing emo eyeliner, a hot dog capelet and some materialistic DIVA shoes!
Good for you! Here Here! -e
You're my hero, sweet girl. xoxo
Darling you ROCK! That comment was way OFF, and I love the way you responded: with poise, dignity, and evidence of your groundedness and general fabulousness! Sweet photos in this post!
Congrats on your 300+ followers!
xoxox,
CC
wow, i'm sure that person has tons of friends and obviously much experience with women.*cough-bullshit-coug* but seriously, who is anybody to judge anybody? well written response, tell him to put that in his blog and smoke it.
Wooo you tell 'em lady! Keep doing your thang
I will never understand why people feel the need to place their negativity on others, ESPECIALLY to sweethearts like you! You are a beautiful, strong woman – never have you come across as materialistic or superficial. You have a wonderful blog, hello, you wouldn't have 300+ followers if people didn't love you!
I just adore you – you owe no one any explanations – you're amazing, my dear!
What an arse clown. He didn't deserve a response but the one you came up with was beautifully articulate and soulful. It's just further proof of why you should be loved the way you are by all of us! You rock lady!
AMEN sista! Keep doing what you're doing. Be proud of who you are and the things you enjoy. I certainly enjoy reading about your fabulous self as do all of your followers!! So he can go suck it ; ) {I'm so eloquent huh?!}
Hope you had a fabulous day. Thank the lord for the WEEKEND.
xoxo
What a rude dude! I love your blog, would never even think of saying sommat like that! Pft!! How hot is that pic of the two macking against the car though haha i mean seriously xxx
"And I do EVERYTHING in a killer pair of heels and an extra swipe of mascara."
yeah!! people are ridiculous. they're just jealous of you and your fabulous and positive happy life.
and thank you so much for your comment on my giveaway. you are amazing and yes we would be taco tuesdaying it, margarita mondaying, thirsty thursdaying it and everything else in between
congrats!!!!! i'm so proud of you!!! danm girl u are the kind of girl i want to be. sadly im clumsy in heels and i hardly wear mascara. maybe i should??? hmmm…. new month resolution.
amen..freakin amen! you are beautiful, creative, funny, loving, sweet, considerate and such a ray of sunshine! that is pretty obvious in your amount of followers and comments you have each day
the fact that you have over 70 comments yet manage to leave me a sweet comment on each post of mine means so much. keep doing what you do best and walk tall in those heels girl. <3 you!
You are amazing…I want to beat that kid up who said it but your response in this post was beautiful and inspiring. Kill them with kindness:)
You are amazing, you have so many followers because you are so geniune and funny and you are a great story teller. I mentioned you in my post today…hope you don't mind.
XO
It must make him feel better to put others down. He probably has a crush on you and this is his only way to get your attention!
I read your blog usually daily and it does not reflect a "materialistic diva" as he advises. You have depth and your fun! What's it to him anyway!
errr people don't get that you are fab darrrling! Always enjoy reading your post, fun-fun-FUN! ~XO*
you got a very cute personality
GREAT post my dearie! You are a sexy smart girl! I know you will go far!
mwa
I got bad comment too from anon..that person is rude, unhappy,jerlous kind and don't like see other person be happy and fab.
you have great post here as always. you're smart,pretty and fabulous girl!!cheers for that!!
Big hugs and kisses…to you!
Hanh,
Sending an extra bucket of sunshine your way to block out that asshat's gloom and doom
AND expect an email from me this weekend containing you-know-what! Squeee!
Ahh love this post! Have a great weekend love
xoxo
you tell him. hav a great weekend and thank you for the lovely b-day wish.
I love the positive reaction to this commenter. You know how much we (and everyone else) loves your blog and draws inspiration from your fashion perspective and you being you. So thank you for that. And keep up the awesome blogging!
Hope you have a wonderful, wonderful weekend!!!
ps- you have a twin too??
Brilliant, interesting post again; such things happen in blogosphere :S Have a relaxed weekend!
YOU TELL EM' HUN-NAY!!! Loved this post!
all I can say is, well said! and great pictures
and in case you didn't know already, I love your blog! it is full of substance and style and there is no shame in that. happy weekend!
Two words…YOU ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i'm totally confused as to what post this reader was even referring to. #1 you're fabulous and #2 It's freakin' FASHION blog, no one is claiming to cure cancer here. LOVE YOU!!
i loooooove reading your posts! You make me realise it is ok to be myself…my true self! I always saw your depth!!! love you! BTW…thanks for the shred advice! xxx
I think you are amazing. period. you put yourself out there and keep it real and there will always be judgmental people…
I have a sister too…not a twin but sisters are the best.
I can't wait until you move here. and, btw, I didn't know you were a twin.
You couldn't have said this better! Jealousy is a compliment! Stay glamourous, fabulous, beautiful, positive and materialistic! I love it! XOXO
I know this was a while ago and I'm clearly behind but I still have to comment and say… I heart you completely and admire your diva ways.
This post is beautiful in so many different ways. I love how you're not ashamed of being attracted to material things. Even if you like fashion, and are into tangible things, it doesn't make you any less human and it doesn't mean you lack brains.
I'm not going to pounce on the guy who wrote that comment, but he shouldn't have been so quick to judge.
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